he and the wife have been trying to start a family since years ago. due to some medical complications, each time when they tried and was successful, they will have to wait and hope that the results will turn positive for them. both of the suffer from the lacking of red blood cells and that will affect the infant as well. so the first time when she got pregnant, she was overwhelmed but only to be defeated when the doctor told her that the baby will not be born complete due to the situation. i know it must feel like a thousand knives stabbing their hearts when they have to let the baby go. that was almost one year ago.
and then today he told me the saddest news again. they tried and they failed and now he feels like he doesnt even want a kid anymore. i think the trials and disappointments have really took a toll on him.
i really feel very very sorry for him, and there is nothing i can do except telling him that god must have arranged something for them. god must have know that they might not be ready now. so let it be and when the time comes, it will come.
if it is really destined not to, and if their aim of having a kid is to care and take care of a life with love, adoption should be considered. after all, besides missing the pregnancy period, others remain the same. if you could love another life with all your heart and give him/her the best of cares, love and nurturing, does it really matters if he/she really comes from you genetically?
it is dumb of me to complaint about how tough it was to take care of a baby, when all some wanted was to have one to complaint about.
i wish the best for you, please dont give up and live with your chin up high. there is always hope and miracle in the future...
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